Wednesday 21 September 2011

Kaun Hai Jo Sapano mai Aya...



At EFLU, Hyderabad one day our handsome professor Balgopal asked us: What will happen if you are driving looking towards the sky( because your lover is flying in the plane there) and singing a song at the top of your voice (so that your lover in the plane can listen to that) with your hands off the steering wheel every now and then?.....All of us shouted unanimously: ACCIDENT!! ...."Yes," he said." but Rajendra Kumar did not realise this in one of my favourite songs 'Kaun hai jo sapano mai aaya'...Nor did I realise while watching this song that what Rajendra Kumar was doing was the most stupid thing to do while driving!!!!! I could not understand Hindi much when I heard this song in my youth, but I was all for this song..."
 
Prof. Balgopal singing the song
 
Kalpesh sir, prof. Bal gopal, Kajal Rao and me
 

Thursday 15 September 2011

Can we fall in love second time?

I believe WE FALL IN LOVE ONCE ONLY. And there are scientific and biological proofs!! Many people say we can fall in love second time (or, for that matter, third, forth and so on). When I hear of SECOND TIME LOVE, certain questions rise in my mind: Can we find the same happiness sitting beside any person that we felt when we sat beside our beloved earlier? Can we have the same enthusiasm talking to any person that we had while talking with our beloved? Can we miss some one else as passionately as we miss our beloved now?

I believe FIRST LOVE, if it is not mere attraction, exhaust the person completely. When you love someone so passionately, you put yourself so much into that person that you hardly have any desire(or energy) left to repeat that. And if someone realises that he/she is falling in love again with the same energy, it means what happened earlier was anything else except love.Maturity always plays its role in love. We can't choose a bad partner and complain that he/she turned BEWAFA and left me. In such case, if anyone is culpable, it is us. Not even the person who, we thought, was our beloved.

At the same time, I don't believe living life being single. I don't want anyone living a singlelife. This world has 6/7 billions of people and of this there are millions who are so pure, good, charming, loving and worthy of love and respect and we are bound to come across them sometimes and we may get attracted towards them for their nature and thoughts and understanding. We may, though not always, find similarity between our beloved and them. I don't find any wrong in choosing them as our partner for the remaining life well aware that it is not possible to unite with our beloved. That is no compromise