A chat on WhatsApp with a friend (FD).... on finding a long-lasting hubby
FD: Don’t know...Good hubbies are not available in the market.
HJ: That’s true, it’s meaningless to get married fast without getting Mr. Right. I
believe it’s better to wait for the right person to come in our life than getting
married to an idiot.
FD: True... As far as I am concerned I am more patient in this case
HJ: I appreciate that...but I do believe that one should get married. A happy marriage
is a great gift a life can give us.
FD: And a sad marriage the worst curse.
HJ: Yeah...Marriage is a very important even in life. Naturally one has to be wise
before selecting proper person.
FD: True.. Anyway I don’t have time to think about marriage
HJ: It’s a great feeling to come back to home and get hugs from children and spouse.
FD: Maybe
HJ: Single life at the age of forty goes without aim...even parents are no longer with
us at that age.... No discipline...no compulsion from anyone...a rudderless ship...
unless you have found your HIGH GOAL of serving people, country or
downtrodden people... In the absence of any higher goal life at 50 may sound
empty....
FD: This is the only reason I give a thought to marriage...and sometimes work is so
burdensome that it just comes to mind to get depended on someone...but these
are very dangerous thoughts
HJ: They are not dangerous thoughts. They are reasonable thoughts. Of course, be
ready to compromise with the image of your ideal partner. Just make sure the
person is right and possess good qualities as a humanbeing. That’s all. And he will
keep you happy till the last breathe.
FD: Anyway, I haven’t formed any image in my mind.
HJ: Then do... But do pass considerable period of time with the guy before getting
married or rejecting him. One week, one month, or even one year and any time
during this period you realise he is not suitable, don’t hesitate to reject. And if
during this time you realise he is a husband material, be ready to tie the knot.
FD: Hmmm... actually I believe in divine power...When I am unable to work out the
things, he manages the things, so someone whom I deserve will surely come to
me. I am not searching for anyone or judging anyone.
HJ: Depending on divine power in matters like marriage is risky thing to do. And
judging and searching are wrong words in this context. We are not talking about
buying a product. We are talking about being cautious.
FD: But i doubt the role of being cautious and judging.
HT : In that case you should meet those who have got bad life-partners and they
would tell you that they didn’t think much thinking about their spouse before
getting married.
FD : I would think over all we discussed here……Now tell me when are you giving
us good news.
HJ : Well I am waiting for divine power to play the role in this regard J
FD : He … He…. He…. J
